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Beyond the Surface: How to Be the Woman of Your Dreams



Hey there, beautiful souls!


I'm Cole Woods, a woman who's walked a path filled with trials and tribulations, ultimately blossoming into a tall and confident 6 ft 2 powerhouse. Once a quiet, introverted soul, I've shaped myself into the woman I've always dreamt of becoming through sheer determination and grit.


From the hardwood as a professional basketball player to strutting down international runways, and now as a successful business owner and beauty tech professional, I've come to understand the true essence of transformation. It's an art, an evolution, and a testament to the power of reinvention.

In my journey, I discovered a fundamental truth: looking the part is only the beginning. It's infinitely more gratifying to be the part. This epiphany was the driving force behind my decision to transcend the confines of the runway. I craved more than just the image of my dreams; I craved the reality.


This declaration sparked one of the most significant glow-ups of my life. It wasn't just about appearances; it was about embodying the strength, wisdom, and grace I had always admired in the women I aspired to be like.


So, how can you embark on this transformative journey and become the woman of your dreams? Consider the following:


  1. Embrace Your Journey: Understand that transformation is a process, not an instant result. It requires patience, self-compassion, and a willingness to learn from every step along the way.

  2. Define Your Vision: Envision the woman you aspire to be. What qualities define her? How does she carry herself? What impact does she have on the world?

  3. Set Clear Goals: Break down your vision into tangible, achievable goals. These could range from personal development milestones to professional accomplishments.

  4. Cultivate Self-Confidence: Confidence radiates from within. Believe in your abilities, acknowledge your worth, and let that inner strength shine through.

  5. Embrace Change: Be open to new experiences, challenges, and opportunities. Growth often happens when we step out of our comfort zones.


6. Leverage Your Strengths: Identify your unique strengths and talents. Leverage them to create meaningful change in your life and the lives of others.

7. Seek Knowledge and Growth: Never stop learning. Read, explore, and engage with the world around you. Knowledge is a powerful tool in your journey towards self-realization.

8. Support and Inspire Others: Lift others up as you climb. Share your journey, lend a helping hand, and be a source of inspiration for those around you.


In my journey toward becoming the woman of my dreams, I embarked on a process I like to call "Cocooning Season." This was a period of intense self-reflection and personal development, where I cocooned myself away from external influences to focus on my own growth.


For more detailed insights into how I navigated this transformative phase, you can check out my dedicated blog post, "How to Use Your Cocooning Season to Your Advantage." There, you'll find a comprehensive account of the strategies, mindset shifts, and daily practices that contributed to my glow-up. It's a guide to finding your own path through self-discovery and intentional living.


As we step toward a new year, I'm excited to share my plans for this year's Cocooning Season. This time around, I'm taking an even more structured approach, incorporating elements of mindfulness, holistic wellness, and targeted skill-building.


To get the full scoop on my 2023/2024 Cocooning Season strategy and discover how it's shaping my journey towards emerging in 2024 as my next best self, be sure to subscribe to Beauty, Brain & Brawn. My upcoming post will be packed with actionable insights, personal anecdotes, and resources to inspire your own transformative journey.


Remember, transformation is not a one-size-fits-all endeavor. It's about discovering what resonates with you, aligning with your true self, and stepping into your power with confidence and purpose. Join me on this empowering journey, and let's make 2023 a year of profound growth and self-discovery!


Alternatively, if you would like some guidance on how you can embark on your own journey of glowing up, schedule a consultation call with me so that we can work through it together. We'll discuss your goals and aspirations as we lay out a roadmap to bring you closer to fulfilling your vision.


Our initial 45-minute consultation is a pivotal first step. It's an opportunity for us to dip our toes into the waters of possibility and see if we're a harmonious match. Here's what to anticipate:

  1. Aspirational Insights: We'll begin by delving into your dreams, aspirations, and the remarkable potential that lies within you.

  2. Mutual Alignment Assessment: Together, we'll gauge if our energies and visions align, laying the foundation for a transformative partnership.

  3. Preliminary Strategies for Growth: I'll share preliminary strategies that could be the key to unlocking your full potential, allowing you to flourish in your beauty, intellect, and strength.

  4. Clarity on Next Steps: We'll discuss the potential path forward and determine if ongoing consultation is the right next step for you.

Subscribe now to stay updated on my 2023 Cocooning Season strategy and be the first to know how I'm preparing to emerge in 2024 as my next best self. Let's embark on this transformative journey together!


With warm regards,


Cole Woods


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